We all get attached to people that we love and care about, to our dreams and careers. Sometimes we worry about losing them so much that it takes away our happiness and current enjoyment of our lives. Our life suffers as we do not spend time thinking about how to progress and make our loved ones happy, we spend the time on what a disaster it would be if we lost them.
So how to stop worrying about losing what is important to us? We need to be able to put it to rest, wipe it out from our heads. We need learn a way how to be able to say: “Oh well, sometimes bad things do happen to us, it’s not the end of the world, I will still make it to work because I’m strong and I can take care of my life.”
A good backup plan can help us to do that. A backup plan tells us what we will do if something that we don’t like happens and then put it out of sight and forget about it. A well worked out backup plan makes us feel that we can handle anything that life throws at us that we are strong and independent and we can deal with any situation. It gives us peace of mind that we don’t have to worry about our future and we can fully concentrate on the present and make the best out of it. The better the plan the easier it is to forget about how we will handle bad situations that we can be put into.
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